Profile-Icon Created with Sketch. He retreats to his corner, and I retreat to mine. As a good friend of mine says, "If you want to improve your marriage, invest in your underwear. My point is this: One of you giving oral sex before you leave for work, petting to climax in the car at a drive-in movie, using vibrators to have orgasms without a lot of foreplay late at night, taking a nap and having a "quickie" before rushing off to a party.
When he did, he saw the pain it would cause her before doing it, rather than retroactively — and guess what? As a result, both partners need, and have trouble providing, lots of reassurance and usually lots of personal space. Real Life.